Trivium - Estudos Interdisciplinares
On-line version ISSN 2176-4891
Abstract
LOPES, Rosa Guedes. Is it unavoidable that women love too much?. Trivium [online]. 2011, vol.3, n.2, pp.73-83. ISSN 2176-4891.
The model of a relationship is the organization pre-genital oral where the object is embedded. In the sadistic-anal organization, the active and passive impulses correspond to the positions of subject and object in the child's object relationship with her mother. This connection is the archaic model of all forms of love, attachment point that guides the choice of sexual partner. Love depends on the presence of the object. The loss of the object causes distress. On castration anxiety, in contrast, the ego is the privileged object of instinctual investment. The study of primary narcissism in Freud logically precedes the concept of femininity. The logic of not-all, formalized by Lacan elucidates this connection that occurs in the sexuation of women. This combination allows us to understand that love, the foundation of social and sexual bond, in excess leads to rupture and detachment.
Keywords : psychoanalysis; woman sexuality; narcissism; logic of not-all; femininity.