versão ISSN 0101-4838
The aim of this article is to reflect on the feelings that come out with the disruption of a loving relationship. We focused the losses effects of love for the woman in the place she occupies as mother and in face of complains to her partner. In such situations the passion becomes love perversion and the loss of the loved object resembles the loss of parts of herself, hindering the overcoming of pain. The theoretical contributions allow us to understand the conjugal dynamisms that take to the rupture of constructed relations according to the model of the infantile omnipotence narcissism, emphasizing the possibilities of elaboration or the aspects that make it impossible.
Palavras-chave : loving relationship; love; passion; elaboration.