Resumo

DURAND, Marina. Brazil. Vínculo [online]. 2007, vol.4, n.4, pp. 94-103. ISSN 1806-2490.

Through popular brasilian songs, I present the paradox of narcissistic agreement in Brazil. I suggest that the "other-agressor" plays the role of our own model of ideal. I discuss these consequences in our psychical and binding organization like the self-rejection, wich is experienced by Braziliens as a rule. Drives and actions to autonomy are repressed and it carries paranoid feelings. The hypothesis is that command-obedience relationships between the foreigner dominant and the mestizo-home-born brasilian are internaly transcripted among the social classes and the elite and the people.

Palavras-chave : Identification with aggressor; Bond; Narcissistic agreement; Autonomy; Command-obedience relationships.