Abstract

FERNANDES, Waldemar José. Loneliness and abandonment - cogitations. Vínculo [online]. 2021, vol.18, n.1, pp. 10-16. ISSN 1806-2490.  http://dx.doi.org/10.32467/issn.19982-1492v18nesp.p13-24.

The author makes an introduction about the concepts of loneliness, abandonment and the relationship between them. The theme of dereliction is specific to psychoanalysis and important to the comprehension of psychic spaces - Intra, inter and transsubjective. It discusses the link L, of love. Love directed towards the other and its diversity puts us in a situation of uncertainty and fragility. When the other doesn't match it, and we lose the beloved object, we become unhappier. Correlations are presented with the unpredictability and uncertainty, the chance and the unexpected, which are so common, as well as the pretension to always be right. Some fragments are presented, whether they are double therapy or group therapy. The author makes several cogitations, as on the Bionian thinking, the failures of communication and its relationship with abandonment, concluding that it is terrible not to accept the internal reality which is impossible to accomplish, as well as the external reality, and not to live in a friendly manner with the resulting emotional experience.

Keywords : loneliness; abandonment; uncertainty; randomness; communication.

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